Coisas da Vida

Guardar ressentimento 
é como tomar veneno 
e esperar que o outro morra.
(Albert Einstein)

Aprenda a viver
sem as pessoas
que vivem sem você.

O ideal seria que todas as pessoas amassem 
o tanto que sabem fingir. (Bob Marley)

Inside my big head

When you know yourself it's easier to know what you want and what you need, even if you have to sleep with that noise inside your big head.

This one

In order to face a love like this maybe one should keep no feet on the ground. Maybe there are no rules, maybe there is no love like this. I'm pretty sure there isn't.
It reminds me of that song.

TEN YEARS GONE

Then, as it was, then again it will be
And though the course may change sometimes
Rivers always reach the sea
Behind skies of fortune, each has gentle rain
On the wings of maybe, downy birds of prey
Kind of makes me feel sometimes, didn't have to go
But as the eagle leaves the nest, it's got so far to go
Changes fill my time, baby, that's alright with me
In the midst I think of you, and how it used to be
Did you ever really need somebody, and really need'em bad?
Did you ever really want somebody, the best something you ever had?
Do you ever remember me, baby, did it feel so good?
Cause it was just the first time, and you knew you would
Dewy eyes now sparkle, senses grown keen
Taste your love along the way, see your feathers preen
Kind of makes me feel sometimes, didn't have to go
We are eagles of a nest, the nest is in our soul
Vixen in my dreams, with great surprise to me
Never thought I'd see your face the way it used to be
Oh darling, oh darling
I'm never gonna leave you. I'm never gonna leave holding on, ten years gone
Ten years gone, holding on, ten years gone...

 

For those who don't know, this is a beautiful song by Led Zeppelin

 

At least...

If you're not able to be kind, to take care of people..well, take off!!



It's really hard to say no sometimes as much as listening to it. But it's part of learning in life. When we know that the person is not prepared to listen to a negative reply, then it's harder to say it, but also very necessary. Because that's when this person needs to listen to a NO the most, to learn and to grow up. We can say it in a very delicate way, but it hurts anyway if the person doesn't know how to listen to it. But this shall pass to. Write a letter, talk with love and smile. And forgive all the ofenses you receive. Just remember you're helping someone to evolve, to grow up.

And I thought so...

...laughing is the best thing to do when we need to feel light. Taking the subway, the green line, how i've missed it. Good gattering, nice people, great dinner, things are getting real and i am getting happy. I looked at the bar i used to work and hang around with an old boyfriend and it felt normal. This was the moment i realized how things really pass by, this is a very short life and i'm gonna be whatever i want to. What so ever i want to. With whom ever i want to be. Not suffer, not hurt, just not! Because i want good things only and people who treat me nice. 

there ain't no easy way out

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NOZ7cr_UcB8&feature=youtube_gdata_player

As if...

I can't tell you of how much you've broken my heart. I can not count every pieces of it, send it to you, one by one so you could see the damage. It would take too long. 
I can not make you feel how i feel about all of this. And the worst part of it is that even if could, it wouldn't change a thing because it doesn't matter to you. That's how much it aches. It doesn't matter to you. 

Breath on, sis, breath on..this shall pass too.

Forgiveness isn't something we do for other people. We do it for ourselves to get well and move on. Once we do it, it gets very easier to forget, another hard thing to do sometimes, because trying to forget someone you love(d) is like trying to remember someone you never met. And sometimes people don't notice what we do for them until we stop doing.
The easy part of life is finding someone to love. The hard part is finding someone to love you back. And you deserve that someone that makes you happy, doesn't complicate your life. Somebody who won't hurt you. And it's very scary because every person has at least one secret that would break your heart.
Love is like a lost object. If you search too hard, you won't find it. But if you forget about it momentanily, it will show up in the most unexpected way.
When someone loves you they don't have to say it. You can tell by the way they treat you.
Sometimes the best thing you can do is not think, not wonder, not imagine, not obsess, just breathe and have faith that everything will work out for the best.
Telling the truth and making someone cry is better then telling lies to make people smile. Trust is like an eraser. It gets smaller and smaller after every mistake.
So, find a partner who encourage you to grow, who won't cling to you, who will let you go out into the world and trust that you will come back.
And if you are looking for the love of your life, stop. He (she) will be waiting for you when you start doing things you love.

Rare guy indeed...

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Esqueci do dia das bruxas...

Forget and forgive and forget again.

The naked truth is always way much better than the best-dressed lie.

Relief

Se sentimos alívio quando mudamos de assunto é porque já não havia mais o que dizer além de adeus.

E a jornada fica mais suave quando não carregamos nosso passado. Então seguimos leves, sem olhar para trás.

                                        And feel free!!!

Silêncio

Ela deveria ter dito "me liga sim" quando ele disse que talvez viesse para São Paulo. E deveria ter dito "um café, claro, me liga pra gente combinar" quando ele disse que levaria seus pais ao litoral e que poderiam tomar aquele café. Porque ela achou ótimo, queria vê-lo. E foi o que disse por dentro! Mas se conteve ao responder no teclado, por medo. Medo de se empolgar demais e criar expectativas e nada acontecer, como em outras vezes. Medo de mostrar o que sente. Deveria lhe dizer que sente sua falta. Mas e se ele não disser o mesmo? Já aconteceu assim. De novo, o medo.
Escreveu, reescreveu, mandou uma mensagem. E agora ele é só silêncio.
Apesar de tudo, dos textos afobados, sente-se aliviada por dizer o que lhe sufocava a garganta, por lhe perguntar o que ele quer. Ah, que pergunta difícil! O que você quer? E tão difícil quanto perguntar é ficar sem resposta. Ela ainda não sabe. Não sabe se ele se importou com o que leu, se apenas ignorou, se se ofendeu. Não sabe mais nada. Só sabe seu silêncio.