Breath on, sis, breath on..this shall pass too.

Forgiveness isn't something we do for other people. We do it for ourselves to get well and move on. Once we do it, it gets very easier to forget, another hard thing to do sometimes, because trying to forget someone you love(d) is like trying to remember someone you never met. And sometimes people don't notice what we do for them until we stop doing.
The easy part of life is finding someone to love. The hard part is finding someone to love you back. And you deserve that someone that makes you happy, doesn't complicate your life. Somebody who won't hurt you. And it's very scary because every person has at least one secret that would break your heart.
Love is like a lost object. If you search too hard, you won't find it. But if you forget about it momentanily, it will show up in the most unexpected way.
When someone loves you they don't have to say it. You can tell by the way they treat you.
Sometimes the best thing you can do is not think, not wonder, not imagine, not obsess, just breathe and have faith that everything will work out for the best.
Telling the truth and making someone cry is better then telling lies to make people smile. Trust is like an eraser. It gets smaller and smaller after every mistake.
So, find a partner who encourage you to grow, who won't cling to you, who will let you go out into the world and trust that you will come back.
And if you are looking for the love of your life, stop. He (she) will be waiting for you when you start doing things you love.